i'm playing along, i've been tagged...

I cleared some of these answers through Ben, but he feel asleep before I finished, so I wonder if he would agree?? Here's some pictures of Ben from a few years ago.. two of them are our annual Halloween party we used to hold at Hillside. He's lookin' pretty tough, huh. I got away with the easy military costume.. not the only time I've done that.

What is his name? Benjamin Daniels Pedersen
How long have you been married? 6 years this July
How long did you date? 9 months
How old is he? gonna be the big 30 this year
Who eats more? I usually judge how much I can eat depending on how much he eats, I always want to eat less.
Who said I love you first? hm.... should I remember this detail?
Who is taller? He is
Who sings better? Ben definitely wins the prize here, although I'm not afraid to sing along and make up my own lyrics.
Whose temper is worse? Hands down his, over the littlest messes or spills you'd think he punched a whole through the wall or something.
Who does the laundry? I sort and fold, he carries it up and down the stairs... when he's not around, I wait till the last possible day to get it done.
Who does the dishes? we have a dishwasher, his name is Ben
Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? he always seems to sleep better than me, so I try to convince him to trade me, never works.. i'm still up with Noah and uncomfortable all night long.
Who mows the lawn? I did it once, my very first time ever. Ben was shocked.
Who pays the bills? what bills?? i'm pretty controlling about anything financial related in the relationship, nothing slips past me.
Who cooks dinner? mostly me, but when Ben isn't around you can't really count what we eat cooking, it's more like grilled cheese or chicken nuggets. ben does have his two signature dishes: sausage and peppers roustica, and breakfast burritos.
Who drives when you are together? we both do, ben from the left seat and me from the right seat.. my new years resolution was to not critique his driving.. he got pulled over the other day for an illegal lane change, i said, 'told you so'. but he is an excellent driver, especially when the handy dandy GPS lady is telling him directions.
Who is more stubborn? probably me
Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? that would be me again.. but it's probably because i'm wrong more often than him
Whose parents do you see the most? mine, i teach piano at their house a few times a week, conveniently it's right near dinner time, so works out nicely:). but when we get together with the Pedersen group it's always a big party!
Who proposed? Ben did, to my absolute suprise.. he is a romantic
Who has more friends? hm, he does better at keeping in contact with his friends... and usually his friends' wives become my friends... but bloggin helps me to feel that I do have some girlfriends.
Who has more siblings? Him, he's the 9th of 11 kids, and i'm the 4th of 4.
Who wears the pants in the family? Ben doesn't like to wear pants.:)